December 31, 2011 – 12:37 pm
How much do you want him (divided by) how he will be in bed + / – how he will be afterward! A good lust meter would tell you whether or not to go for it/him – JRW
What passes for sexual education in academia is generally about the mechanics of biology. That serves to compartmentalize the body as a thing apart from critical factors such as touch, energy, the dynamics of movement, of giving and receiving. The mystery and power inherent in becoming a sexual being – something cultures have celebrated and [...]
November 26, 2009 – 1:24 pm
At the moment I seem to be wordless. I have a list of things I can enter in this post and and inner critic says that “it’s too much” and “it has nothing to do with sexuality!” Intimacy, penetration, inter- and intra-relatedness, synchronicities and coincidences are happening everywhere. “Microbes can “eat” rocks, “breathe” metals, transform [...]
November 22, 2009 – 12:05 am
Communication. It’s important. Things are going to come up. And your going to need to talk about them or you are going to plateau sexually. This thread began with the idea that the first taboo to break is permitting yourself to talk about sex openly. This is one of the first steps to really begin [...]
November 21, 2009 – 12:43 am
A Slinky models a good sexual relationship. Put one in both hands and move the hands up and down to see why. It’s about giving and receiving by both parties involved. One hand can’t receive without the other giving. Then the roles change. Connection is kept through a spiral coil (these leads to ideas of [...]
November 19, 2009 – 11:13 pm
At Tantric Sexuality workshops and seminars, many facilitators encourage women to move their heart energy into their hips during lovemaking. The reverse is encouraged in men. Guys are to move their sexual or first chakra energy out to their heart. What is implied here are the cultural roles that male and female are supposed to [...]
November 18, 2009 – 11:33 pm
The dialogue continued today at the Santa Monica Farmer’s Market. K. T. told me of something she heard awhile ago. “Men have sex to feel good.” “Women have sex when they feel good.” We continued to have a lively conversation for about five minutes touching on topics related this…..how this can be a generalization, how [...]
November 17, 2009 – 3:10 pm
I am going to be speaking at the 2010 Southern California MENSA gathering on the topic “Sexuality 101 – What They Didn’t Teach You in High School” On Sunday at the Hollywood Farmer’s Market, I saw J.K., the woman who helped organized the event. Smiling like the cat who ate the cream, she says to [...]
A Tensegrity Sphere is a light, strong structure that holds itself together through two strengths, tension and compression. The same can be said for the human body. We can stand upright and walk around because our bones provide compression, and are held in place by muscles and tendons, which provide tension. These two strengths, compression in our bones and tension in our muscles and tendons, work together to make our bodies stable and strong.